When Your Ex Passes Away, How Should You Feel?

From the Author of Broken Heart on Amazon...(AD)

If Your Ex Passes Away, You Should Feel However You Feel!


Some of you have been with me since the very beginning in 2013 when I began chronicling my journey from heart break to healing.  Yesterday, I learned that my ex had passed away a couple of weeks before Chiron was moving out of my Sun sign.  One thing I can say is that I felt his departure, and I did  have an opportunity to chat with him by phone, the day before, and we made peace, which is a good thing.  Right now I can say that I am experiencing clarity.



I Can Confirm Divorce is Like Death

I've already mourned for him over the last five years since our divorce, and the children, which he hadn't seen in about a month and a half prior to his death, had already begun to mourn also.  I can honestly say divorce is very much like a death because I remember the times when I couldn't breath, think, envision the future... all of that.  I remember keeping his clothes, shoes, etc., and gradually over the last 5 years, emptying drawers, throwing things away, erasing his memory and moving forward with my life without any hopes of an honest reconciliation.

Having been divorced helps me to understand the torment of losing a beloved husband.  If you have or are experiencing a hard break up, always trust the process of time because when you are given time to heal while the person is still alive, it is a blessing.

I wrote Broken Heart(AD)as an emergency manual to get you through the initial couple of weeks of divorce or a break up, and now I can say after five years, that it will likely help you with mourning a death as well.  This is not for those of you who didn't care about who you were with.  This is for those of you who invested your life into the person you loved, then you lost them (for whatever reason) and it was NOT what you wanted.

Thank you everyone who took and will take this journey with me as I experience full closure and Chiron gets the hell out of my Sun sign!

Blessings!