If Your Ex Passes Away, You Should Feel However You Feel!Some of you have been with me since the very beginning in 2013 when I began chronicling my journey from heart break to healing. Yesterday, I learned that my ex had passed away a couple of weeks before Chiron was moving out of my Sun sign. One thing I can say is that I felt his departure, and I did have an opportunity to chat with him by phone, the day before, and we made peace, which is a good thing. Right now I can say that I am experiencing clarity.
I Can Confirm Divorce is Like DeathI've already mourned for him over the last five years since our divorce, and the children, which he hasn't (or hadn't since he is now deceased) seen in about a month and a half, had already begun to mourn also. I can honestly say divorce is very much like a death because I remember the times when I couldn't breath, think, envision the future... all of that. I remember keeping his clothes, shoes, etc., and gradually over the last 5 years, emptying drawers, throwing things away, erasing his memory and moving forward with my life without any hopes of an honest reconciliation.
I can also see the torment in losing an ex before you have gotten to this point so always trust the process of time because when you are given time to heal in the midst of the storm, it is a blessing.
I wrote Broken Heart as an emergency manual to get you through the initial couple of weeks of divorce, and now I can say after 5 years, that it will likely help you with mourning a death as well.
Thank you everyone who took and will take this journey with me as I experience full closure and Chiron gets the hell out of my Sun sign!